What is a Puer Aeternus?

Puer Aeternus, which means "eternal boy" in Latin, is a term used in psychology and mythology to describe a psychological phenomenon characterized by a state of prolonged adolescence or immaturity in adults. The concept of Puer Aeternus was first introduced by Carl Jung, and later expanded upon by Marie-Louise von Franz and James Hillman.

According to Jungian psychology, the Puer Aeternus represents an archetypal figure that embodies the ideal of youthfulness, creativity, and spontaneity, but can also be associated with irresponsibility, lack of commitment, and an inability to fully engage with the demands of adulthood. The Puer Aeternus is often associated with a fear of growing up, a resistance to authority, and a desire to remain free from the constraints of social norms and expectations.

Individuals who exhibit characteristics of the Puer Aeternus may struggle with a sense of purpose or direction in life, and may find it difficult to commit to relationships, careers, or other long-term goals. They may also be prone to escapism, such as excessive daydreaming or substance abuse, as a way of avoiding the demands of reality.

While the Puer Aeternus is often associated with negative qualities, such as immaturity and irresponsibility, Jungian psychology also recognizes the positive aspects of this archetype, such as creativity, playfulness, and a sense of wonder and spontaneity. The goal of individuation, or the process of integrating the conscious and unconscious aspects of the psyche, is to transform the negative aspects of the Puer Aeternus into positive qualities, while retaining its vitality and creative energy.

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